Friday, December 23, 2011

Start Thinking Positive...


Live the life you deserve...Start Thinking Positive!!!

Positive Thinkers Have Twelve Qualities in Common

They have confidence in themselves.
They have a very strong sense of purpose.
They never have excuses for not doing something.
They always try their hardest for perfection.
They never considered the idea of failing.
They work extremely hard towards their goals.
They know who they are.
They understand the weaknesses as well as their strong points.
They can accept the benefit from criticism.
They know when to defend what they are doing.
They are creative.
They are not afraid to be a little different in finding innovative solutions that will enable them to achieve their dreams.

You to can have these qualities if you start thinking positive! Its not that hard, focus your mind on all the good in your life, keep from dwelling on the past if it is negative in any way.

Find healing, inspiration and boost your creativity.

Start thinking positive and learn to truly enjoy the time we have here on Earth. Personal development starts when you decide to change. If its really important to you in life then you will chose to make an effort. Happiness comes when we decide to accept it into our lives.

The happiness habit is developed by simply practicing happy thinking. Make a mental list of happy thoughts and pass them through your mind several times every day.

If an unhappy thought should enter your mind, immediately stop, consciously eject it, and substitute a happiness thought. Every morning before arising, lie relaxed in bed and deliberately drop happy thoughts into your conscious mind.

Let a series of pictures pass across your mind of each happy experience you expect to have during the day. Saver their joy. Such thoughts will help cause events to turn out that way.

Whatever else you do or forebear, impose upon yourself the task of happiness; and now and then abandon yourself to the joy of laughter.

And however much you condemn the evil in the world, remember that the world is not all evil, that somewhere children are at play, as you yourself in the old days; that women still find joy in the stalwart hearts of men;
"And that men, treading with restless feet their many paths, may yet find refuge from the storms of the world in the cheerful house of love."
Max Ehrmann

Happiness is wherever you look, just open your eyes and enjoy what you see.

Start thinking positive its all up to you. CHOOSE HAPPINESS.....How could you go wrong?

Live the life you deserve...Start Thinking Positive!!!

 

Start Thinking Positive!!

Share in These Stories of Happiness and Positive Thoughts!


There Is Nothing Either Good Or Bad, But Thinking Makes It So.
William Shakespeare.


 

Make A Little Bit Of Heaven Out Of Every Day Here On Earth!


There is nothing which can hinder or circumvent a strong and determined soul seeking for health, usefulness, truth and success.

Keep that fact well in mind and live to it, no matter what the whole world may say to the contrary. Fear nothing. You are part of a splendid universe, and you are here to get the best out of this phase of life....

Look for something to be thankful and happy over each day, and you will find it!!!! When you start thinking positive in every way you can the whole world is yours.


Start Thinking Positive

Fill your soul and mind full of love and sympathy and joy.... and blessings will follow.
Ella Wheeler Wilcox

Start Thinking Positive!!

Its a choice we all have to make....choose now, don't waste anymore time happiness is a wonderful thing and its here for all of us to have. Positive thinking is FREE...base your life on all the good around us. Cherish the time you have.

Spend everyday looking for the good, be pleasant and kind find joy in the company of others.

 

Difficult Times Don't Last Forever!

Sometimes the problems you must face are more than you wish to cope with, and tomorrow doesn't seem to offer any solutions. You may ask yourself "why me?" but the answer is sometimes unclear. You may even tend to feel that life hasn't been just or fair to burden you with such obstacles.

Finish every day and be done with it, you have done what you could. The present day is all that is good and fair, it is filled with hopes and invitations its to dear to waste its moments on the yesterdays.

Start Thinking Positive!

Look not mournfully into the Past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy Future, without fear, and with a manly heart.
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

 

Enthusiasm and Optimism Can Overcome Any Obstacle

Enthusiasm.. Enthusiasm is one of the most powerful engines of success. When you do a thing, do it with all your might. Be active, be energetic, be enthusiastic and you will achieve that what it is your after.

Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Start thinking positive and you will achieve success after success.

Climb....Go higher than you ever thought you could. Climb the ladder of success, whatever that is for you. Climb your way to the top.

Believe in yourself, maintain that positive thinking the only thing standing in your way would be you. Live your life with passion, enjoy every moment you can. Remember all that is good, keep those feelings with you all the time.

You have a choice, you can select joy over despair, happiness over tears, you can select growth over stagnation. You Can Select Life and All it Has to Offer.

Is To Be Treasured!

Start Thinking Positive! This will bring you a world of joy. When you live your life based on positive thinking you have made a choice to truly live life.

 

Positive Thinking Is.............

  • the key which unlocks the doors of the world. There is something in us which corresponds to that which is around us, beneath us, and above us. Samuel McChord Crothers
  • a habit, like any other; we can practice it every day until it becomes second nature to us---and along the way transform our lives. Washington L. Crowley
  • knowing that, in the grand scheme or things, we live in a world where rainy days eventually give way to sunnier skies. R. L. Keith
  • the most effective tool ever created for lifting an individual to the greatest achievements humanity can aspire to. Montaque Edwards
  • the ultimate triumph of mind over matter; the victory of the spirit over all the shadows lurking in the world. Martin A. Browning
  • not always the easiest course of action when confronting difficulties. If, however, we can remain focused on keeping hope strong and not succumbing to negative influences, we will meet with success in dealing with anything life may throw in our path. Hiram Rogers Lloyd

 

Positive Thinking Is...........


JOY In your heart, your mind, your soul.
PEACE With yourself and with the universe.
HARMONY
COURAGE To feel, to need, to reach out.
FREEDOM To let yourself be bound by love.
FRIENDSHIP
WISDOM To learn, to change, to let go.
ACCEPTANCE Of the truth and beauty within yourself.
GROWTH
PLEASURE In all that you see, and touch, and do.
HAPPINESS With yourself and with the world.
LOVE!!


Author Unknown
Why not try writing something positive yourself? This could be your first step to start thinking positive everyday of your life.




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Power of The MIND...


Learn how to use the power of the mind to move beyond the fears holding you back from realizing your true potential in life. We all dream about success and success comes in many forms It's unique to each one of us.

For some success might be more money and for others it might be a happy marriage, a better personal life, a new home. Regardless of how do define success the fact is you can have just about anything you wish, as long as you open your mind to the possibilities.

Most people have no idea just how powerful the human mind really is and how to harness the power of the mind to shape their lives in a way that brings them the most happiness.

So why is it that some are so successful and happy while others struggle to get by in both their personal and professional lives?


The answer is Fear!

Fear is a powerful emotion and if you allow it to it can ruin your life. Although fear is not always a bad thing, it can be both a blessing and a curse it just depends upon how and when one yields to it or rejects it.

 

Using The Power of The Mind To Overcome Your Fears

Power of The Mind

Fear looms everywhere in today's society but more often than not, it is an emotion that is self-generated. When you give into your fears you give it strength. By placing your attention and your focus on the things that go wrong in your life you strengthen the grip of fear allowing this debilitating emotion to shut down you potential to move forward.

Many fail to ever reach their full potential in life because they allow their fears to hold them back. The fear of failure is just as powerful as the fear of success. When you focus your mind on your fears this can attract the causes of failure, and the fear of defeat is an open invitation for defeat.

As you can see this is all a vicious cycle but you can use the power of your mind to break this cycle. Once you learn how to move beyond your fears you will open the doors to your innate power and your true potential in life.

The key to living a successful life is to break through your fears and re-discover the true power that lies within.

So how can you make this happen for yourself? It is all within the power of the mind!

You need to open your mind to the reality that you have just as much right to live a happy, fulfilled and successful life as anyone else.

A closed mind keeps you where you are in life, where you have always been, and will continue to be. A closed mind limits your possibilities, it destroys your inner creativity and it kills your drive for success.

Eventually you begin to separate yourself from the positive thoughts it takes to achieve any level of success. As these feelings of loss and despair strengthen you become beaten down inside and for many this turns to anger and envy.

But this doesn't have to happen to you or if it has you can use the power of the mind to overcome these feelings. I have mentioned before just how powerful thoughts can be. If you allow your mind to dwell upon negative thoughts your chances of working past your fears and realizing your true potential are pretty much shut right down.

 

Use The Power of The Mind To Shape Your Thoughts And Destiny!

Thoughts are energy and emotional thoughts carry even more energy. Our entire universe is controlled by energy so if your thoughts are negative you are sending out negative energy and that will only attract more negativity into your life.

It is up to you to use the power of the mind to create positive thoughts, emotionally charged positive thoughts. This may not come easy at first but I promise if you work at producing positive thoughts, if you focus your mind upon success it will come.

We all get knocked down at times, it's the winners in life that pull themselves backup. I am speaking to you from firsthand experience. I had the Great life, I was successful, I had achieved all my dreams but it did not come without it's price.

I had no advantages in life, my Father was a drunk we didn't have the money to buy the things that all my friends had. My childhood was a challenge but I never let that stop me. I didn't realize it at the time but I had tapped into the power of the mind, I always knew that I could do anything if I believed.


I took our disadvantages and turned them into my personal advantage. I never let my mind focus on what we didn't have instead I focused on what I could do with what I did have.
I had the drive and desire to succeed. I didn't need money to work hard and become the best in my class or the best athlete on the field.

I focused on the positive and that positive energy kept me going and I became the best I could be at whatever I wished to achieve.

I graduated at the top of my class, I built a successful business/businesses, I excelled as an athlete to a level that I could only imagine. I built a beautiful life for my family and by time I was 30 years old we had more than we could have ever wished for.

I don't tell you all that to brag, I want you to see how I achieved so much success. Look back through the previous three paragraphs. You can see that I never focused on anything negative, I envisioned my success, I dreamed of being the best, I worked hard towards achieving my goals. That is the power of the mind!

Had I focused on all the bad things in my life I would never have had the drive and desire to succeed. Nothing good comes from focusing your mind on the negative aspects of life.
If You Focus On What You Don't Have You Will Never Get What You Want To Have.

My story didn't end there, not by a long shot. At the age of 35 I was diagnosed with my first of six brain tumors. I wrote goodbye letters to all my family members and left them with my attorney to mail upon my passing. I was telling myself that I was just being realistic when in fact I was doing nothing more than feeding into the negative situation.

I eventually turned my attitude around and that is the only reason I am sitting here today typing this article.

Here it is 11+ years later, I lost my businesses, I lost my health, I lost my athletic career and we are financially bankrupt. I am permanently disabled and cannot support my family but honestly I don't focus on all that. In fact I don't even like that I had to type that all out because I don't want to clutter my mind with those negative thoughts.

I know that I am here as a result of the power of the mind. My entire life is different than the one I had built but I know in my heart and my mind that I will achieve a new level of success.
I refuse to allow negative thoughts and feelings to clutter my mind and hinder my progress toward my new goals in life.

I hope that if you are fighting with negative thoughts you can see from my example that everything in life is a choice. You can choose to be a victim of your circumstances and hide behind your fears and negativity or you can fight off the negative thoughts and trust in the power of the mind.





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ENTHUSIASM IS CONTAGIOUS



It’s true! Enthusiasm really is contagious – there are very few people who, once in contact with somebody truly enthused, can remain unmoved. Just place one person, determined and aflame with enthusiasm in a mediocre group and it will not be too long before the atmosphere has been energised and the whole company positive and motivated with the same passion. The powerful enthusiastic energy you give out will inspire those around you to become more dynamic, and ultimately, successful.


MAKE SOMETHING HAPPEN NOW

Enthusiasm means that you should never let a day pass without doing something towards your goals. Once you have made a firm decision, act on it, and make that move to take you a little nearer your objective. Do not scorn your little achievements, and do not feel it isn’t worth the effort, for each and every step forward is valuable. Just keep going and do each day’s task to the best of your ability. Once others see that you are truly enthusiastic and constantly moving ahead, they will be clamouring to help you.


FORGET ABOUT YESTERDAY

As we go through life we sometimes make mistakes. We make errors of judgement. We all do it, it is part and parcel of being human. The answer is to leave those mistakes in the past, and to remember that no matter how painful those memories are we cannot undo them. We cannot change them, not one iota. Instead, we would do well to look forward to a bright future, and when we make mistakes again, as we will, consider them as a useful part of the learning process. Forget about yesterday, and be enthusiastic about the now, for that is all that really matters. Then forge ahead with the expectation that your success is just around the corner.


BELIEVE IN YOURSELF

Lack of belief in ourselves and in what we are doing is at the root of many problems in life. We know what we want yet we are held back because we think that we don’t have the ability, or the right, to achieve it. It is like a paralysis of the mind that holds us in a grip of fear and reticence. To overcome this crippling attitude we must learn to regard ourselves as worthy and capable, and possessing the potential to reach our objectives and achieve a successful and fulfilling life.

DIG DOWN DEEPER

It is stating the obvious here but it is very difficult, maybe impossible, to whip up any enthusiasm about your objective if you know nothing about it. So when you make a decision to do something find out all you can about what it is you really want. Read all you can on the subject, educate yourself and discover all there is to know. Mix with, and learn from, the people who have already achieved success in that sphere. If you set out with only a vague idea of what your goal is, how will you know exactly what it is you are aiming for, and how will you recognise it when you get there.


FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WANT

Focus on what you want, not what you don’t want. When setting goals or making decisions use positive language. For example, if your aim is to stop smoking do not say to yourself ‘I am not going to smoke any more’ because the subconscious will focus on the negative aspect of the wording, thus hampering your attempts. Instead say to yourself positively and with conviction ‘From this moment on I am an ex-smoker’, and the subconscious will accept this as the truth. This is a simple point but a very powerful one, as the slightest hint of negativity could cancel out any enthusiasm you have for the task.


MAKE A COMMITMENT

Unless you are one hundred per cent committed to your goal, unless you are willing to accept the risks, unless you are willing to accept the changes it will invariably bring, you can never be totally enthusiastic about your goal. The individual who has a burning enthusiasm, has carefully considered the goal, and accepted whatever it takes to get there, even though it may mean relegating or even disposing of other goals on their list. It does take courage to make a commitment to this degree but it has to be done because there is no room for timidity here. Someone once said ‘the winner is he who gives himself to his work, body and soul.’ That is sound advice.


WATCH YOUR ATTITUDE

A confident, positive, and enthusiastic attitude is vital to you on your journey to success. You must take care, however, that on your way to the top you do not tread on others’ toes in the process. It would be so easy to generate a great enthusiasm for what you are doing and not consider other people and their feelings. Enthusiasm is contagious as has been explained in another section here, but you want others to feel the same passion about your goals, not alienate them so that they avoid you altogether. Sometimes people may feel that they are being overwhelmed by your enthusiasm, and this can be detrimental to your efforts as you need all the help you can get. So involve others, make them feel needed, and let them know that they are special.


REACHING YOUR GOALS

As you head towards your goals you will be bringing into play all sorts of factors such as determination, positive thinking, concentration, and many others. However, the quality you most need to assure yourself of success is that great driving power Enthusiasm. Without this all those fine schemes and goals will be just wishful thinking with the minimum chance of success.

One other thing to consider when you reach your goal - there is an old saying ‘no man is an island unto himself’ and thus it is almost certain that others have helped you in some way on your journey to success. If they have, then acknowledge their contribution with a gift of some kind, or maybe a letter of thanks. After all, we all like to be appreciated, and this is a small but meaningful gesture of your gratitude.

REWARD YOURSELF

We all know that success brings it’s own rewards in various forms. Whether it is financial security, fame, starting a new business, attaining a law degree, indeed it could be anything. But it can be tough going, so while you are striving for your goal it is a good policy to reward yourself now and then along the way. When each sub goal is reached, or any other significant point, reward yourself by buying something you have long wanted, buy a good book, go to see a good film, or take someone special out for a meal. In fact do anything just to spoil yourself – after all you have earned it.


IN CONCLUSION

Look upon your life, and everything you do, as a wonderful adventure so make those glorious goals and really go for them. With a burning enthusiasm within you your journey to a richer, fuller life will be one of stimulation and excitement. As a result you will emerge as a stronger, more confident, more mature individual, well equipped to tackle any challenge. Maintained enthusiasm is a dynamic and motivating power, second to none, that if applied with the unbending will to succeed will raise you to greater heights of achievement that you ever thought possible.


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Power of Enthusiasm


Enthusiasm Power Only An Enthusiast Can Enjoy!

Enthusiasm is one of the greatest of human traits a person can have.

An old Chinese proverb said "A man without a smiling face must not open a shop." People are attracted to people who care.

If you are enthusiastic about your work other people will be attracted to join in with you and help you take that work to the next level.

Nothing worth doing can be done by one person in total isolation from others. We need other people and they need us!


Enthusiasm Power

If we show enthusiasm for what we are doing others will be drawn to our enterprises. No one wants to be around a "Grump."

We all crave the positive energy of life, the exuberance, the joy, the pure love of life and when we see that in another person we want to be around that individual.

When people see this energy in you they will want to be around you.

The Famous actor Clark Gable once remarked "The only reason people come to see me is because I know life is great and they know I know it."

Do you realize how great life is?

Do you inject your enthusiasm into every venture you endure?

In addition to its attractive energy, enthusiasm has another attractive quality, it can be extremely contagious!

It has been noted throughout history by all the great thinkers that we become like the people that we are around.

In the world of animals this is called imprinting, a baby duck picks up how to act from the mother duck, a puppy learns from the elder dog.

The same thing goes on in human life, the more attractive a person is the more likely others are to imprint off that individual and enthusiasm of the right sort can make an individual very attractive. The energy of the universe glows through him or her.

 

The Power of Enthusiasm Business

In a business context nothing could be more important, one properly enthusiastic person on a team can ignite other members to a warmer glow of emotional energy, two can set a team on fire.

On the other hand "Gloom" can be contagious as well, but people tend resist gloom.

Deep down everybody wants to be committed to something so properly displayed enthusiasm is one of the most attractive, infectious characteristics imaginable.

It has been said "That nothing is as contagious as enthusiasm," author unknown but I am certain that I read the quote elsewhere.

Enthusiasm can become a habit like most anything else. I am an enthusiast about almost everything I do it is the most beneficial way to engage most every situation in this world.

I remember when I purchased my first mp3 player, I was so enthused about it I just had to show it off to anyone who would listen.

Due to my radiant excitement many of those I so enthusiastically shared my newest possession with started showing up with one of their own.

Enthusiasm is attractive, contagious and energizing.

Your own enthusiasm gives you an immediate point of contact with other individuals of superior quality who because of precisely this may become to see in you, something of themselves.

Washington Irving wrote "Enthusiast soon understand each other."

I think nothing could be more true, just think a moment when you meet someone that is just so full of enthusiastic energy can you not relate to their exuberant feelings.

I mean don't they just make you feel better no matter what the situation?

Enthusiasts do understand each other and since we all want to work with other people we understand, enthusiasts throughout the world tend to work with each other at the highest levels of any enterprise.

Therefore I enthusiastically conclude; It is a very good thing to be an enthusiast.

A quote by Clarence Day said "You can't sweep other people off their feet if you can't be swept off your own!"

 

Obtaining The Power of Enthusiasm

If you find yourself having trouble with a lack of enthusiasm just remind yourself of the elements of its genesis.

==> First you must be interested in what you are doing, fascination is best. If you don't have it do what it takes to get it!

==> Second, you need a strong desire for what you are pursuing. If the old pursuit has run out of steam, then you need a new pursuit, right away, within the job, attached to the job or if all that is really impossible and you enthusiastically tried your best, within a new job.

==> Third, overcome any emotional blockages to enthusiasm by transcending the negative and imaginatively nurturing the positive. Give yourself a big picture of what you are doing, find something to love about that job and cultivate that love. Set goals whose attainment will bring into your life things that you deeply desire and when you achieve them celebrate that heartedly.

Once you achieve your goal you must renew your vision. Chart out a strategy for pursuing your new goals, launch out, keep your head up, stay on course and indulge yourself in a little passion or rather a lot.

It is only when we have a strong feeling of enthusiasm for what we are doing if we are going to stand any chance of enticing others to join in the delight, over the long run!

 

Enthusiasm Will Give You The Desire To Reach Greater Heights In This Life!

Ride the biggest wave of enthusiasm you can find to take you where you really belong!

Ask yourself these four questions:

Number 1) How do you handle anger?
Number 2) How do you handle frustration?
Number 3) What are you most enthusiastic about in your work right now? What can you do to share this enthusiasm with other people?
Number 4) What are you most enthusiastic about in your private life, right now? How can you share this enthusiasm with the people around you, appropriately?


A quote from William Shakespeare: "A business that we love we rise by time and go to it with delight."

Whatever you do, never fall prey to the non-enthusiast!

If you find yourself surrounded by negative energy, get out of there as fast as humanly possible!

We live in a marvelous time in history, the doors to success are all around us but it is up to you to open those doors with desire and enthusiasm!


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Friday, December 16, 2011

Brainy Quote ... chinese philosopher


I have just three things to teach: simplicity, patience, compassion. These three are your greatest treasures.
Lao Tzu

Great acts are made up of small deeds.
Lao Tzu
   
He who conquers others is strong; He who conquers himself is mighty.
Lao Tzu

He who controls others may be powerful, but he who has mastered himself is mightier still.
Lao Tzu

He who does not trust enough, Will not be trusted.
Lao Tzu

He who is contented is rich.
Lao Tzu

He who knows himself is enlightened.
Lao Tzu

He who knows others is wise. He who knows himself is enlightened.
Lao Tzu

He who knows that enough is enough will always have enough.
Lao Tzu

He who knows, does not speak. He who speaks, does not know.
Lao Tzu

He who obtains has little. He who scatters has much.
Lao Tzu

He who talks more is sooner exhausted.
Lao Tzu

Health is the greatest possession. Contentment is the greatest treasure. Confidence is the greatest friend. Non-being is the greatest joy.
Lao Tzu

If you do not change direction, you may end up where you are heading.
Lao Tzu

If you realize that all things change, there is nothing you will try to hold on to. If you are not afraid of dying, there is nothing you cannot achieve.
Lao Tzu

If you would take, you must first give, this is the beginning of intelligence.
Lao Tzu

A good traveler has no fixed plans, and is not intent on arriving.
Lao Tzu

A leader is best when people barely know he exists, when his work is done, his aim fulfilled, they will say: we did it ourselves.
Lao Tzu

A scholar who cherishes the love of comfort is not fit to be deemed a scholar.
Lao Tzu

All difficult things have their origin in that which is easy, and great things in that which is small.
Lao Tzu

Ambition has one heel nailed in well, though she stretch her fingers to touch the heavens.
Lao Tzu

An ant on the move does more than a dozing ox.
Lao Tzu

Anticipate the difficult by managing the easy.
Lao Tzu

At the center of your being you have the answer; you know who you are and you know what you want.
Lao Tzu

Be Content with what you have; rejoice in the way things are. When you realize there is nothing lacking, the whole world belongs to you.
Lao Tzu

Be the chief but never the lord.
Lao Tzu

Because of a great love, one is courageous.
Lao Tzu

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
Lao Tzu

By letting it go it all gets done. The world is won by those who let it go. But when you try and try. The world is beyond the winning.
Lao Tzu

Do the difficult things while they are easy and do the great things while they are small. A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step.
Lao Tzu

Fill your bowl to the brim and it will spill. Keep sharpening your knife and it will blunt.
Lao Tzu

For the wise man looks into space and he knows there is no limited dimensions.
Lao Tzu

From caring comes courage.
Lao Tzu

From wonder into wonder existence opens.
Lao Tzu

Govern a great nation as you would cook a small fish. Do not overdo it.
Lao Tzu

Governing a great nation is like cooking a small fish - too much handling will spoil it.
Lao Tzu

A superior man is modest in his speech, but exceeds in his actions.
Confucius

Ability will never catch up with the demand for it.
Confucius

An oppressive government is more to be feared than a tiger.
Confucius

And remember, no matter where you go, there you are.
Confucius

Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without.
Confucius

By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest.
Confucius

Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life.
Confucius

Death and life have their determined appointments; riches and honors depend upon heaven.
Confucius

Do not impose on others what you yourself do not desire.
Confucius

Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it.
Confucius

Faced with what is right, to leave it undone shows a lack of courage.
Confucius

Go before the people with your example, and be laborious in their affairs.
Confucius

He who learns but does not think, is lost! He who thinks but does not learn is in great danger.
Confucius

He who speaks without modesty will find it difficult to make his words good.
Confucius

Heaven means to be one with God.
Confucius

I hear and I forget. I see and I remember. I do and I understand.
Confucius

I hear, I know. I see, I remember. I do, I understand.
Confucius

I want you to be everything that's you, deep at the center of your being.
Confucius

I will not be concerned at other men's not knowing me;I will be concerned at my own want of ability.
Confucius

If I am walking with two other men, each of them will serve as my teacher. I will pick out the good points of the one and imitate them, and the bad points of the other and correct them in myself.
Confucius

If we don't know life, how can we know death?
Confucius

If you look into your own heart, and you find nothing wrong there, what is there to worry about? What is there to fear?
Confucius

In a country well governed, poverty is something to be ashamed of. In a country badly governed, wealth is something to be ashamed of.
Confucius

Instead of being concerned that you have no office, be concerned to think how you may fit yourself for office. Instead of being concerned that you are not known, see to the (be?) worthy of being known.
Confucius

It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.
Confucius

It is easy to hate and it is difficult to love. This is how the whole scheme of things works. All good things are difficult to achieve; and bad things are very easy to get.
Confucius

It is more shameful to distrust our friends than to be deceived by them.
Confucius

Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.
Confucius

Look at the means which a man employs, consider his motives, observe his pleasures. A man simply cannot conceal himself!
Confucius

Old age, believe me, is a good and pleasant thing. It is true you are gently shouldered off the stage, but then you are given such a comfortable front stall as spectator.
Confucius

Only the wisest and stupidest of men never change.
Confucius

Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.
Confucius

Real knowledge is to know the extent of one's ignorance.
Confucius

Silence is a true friend who never betrays.
Confucius

Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
Confucius



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Thursday, December 15, 2011

20 Fakta Menarik Antara Lelaki Dan Perempuan

1.Rata-rata perempuan tidur lebih lama 1 jam di waktu malam dari pada lelaki.

2.Bayi perempuan cenderung lebih cepat berjalan dan berbicara, bayi lelaki 2 bulan lebih lambat.

3.Lebih banyak kehamilan dan kelahiran dengan komplikasi (gangguan) saat mengandung bayi lelaki dibandingkan dengan bayi perempuan.

4.Rata-rata berat otak lelaki lebih berat 1,4 kg daripada berat otak perempuan.

5.Pembedahan mengganti alat kelamin lebih banyak dilakukan oleh lelaki.

6.Perempuan kurang mampu menahan dingin disebabkan permukaan kulit yang lebih besar, sehingga lebih suka pada suhu ruang yang lebih hangat.

7.Lelaki lebih suka bicara langsung sesuai tujuannya, sementara perbicaraan perempuan terputus-putus dengan keraguan dan perasaan. Disebabkan serabut penghubung antara belahan otak kanan ( intuisi ) dan kiri ( logika ) lebih sedikit pada perempuan. Sehingga ekspresi perasaan lebih mudah terjadi pada perempuan.

8.Perempuan lebih baik indra penciumannya disebabkan tingginya hormon estrogen yang diketahui sebagai aktivator reseptor penciuman.

9.Perempuan mempunyai 75 % lebih banyak kelenjar keringat/peluh ( yang menghasilkan bau badan ) daripada lelaki.

10.Kemampuan indra laki-laki untuk mengecapi rasa masam, manis dan masin lebih rendah pada perempuan.

11.Lebih dari dua kali pada perempuan cenderung homoseksual (menyukai sesama jenis) pada usia 45 tahun daripada lelaki.

12.Pada saat usia tua perempuan mengalami kerontokan rambut, pada usia yang sama sebagian besar laki-laki mengalami kebotakan. Kebotakan disebabkan produksi berlebihan dari hormon androgen (hormon lelaki ).

13.Berpapasan dengan perempuan di jalanan, lelaki menghadapkan tubuhnya menghadap perempuan yang dijumpainya. Perempuan pula cenderung membalikkan badan, sering secara tidak sedar menempatkan tangan di depan badannya untuk melindungi dada.

14.Kira-kira 48 % lelaki berdengkur ketika tidur, hanya 22 % saja pada perempuan.

15.Lelaki lebih banyak memilih merah, dan perempuan warna biru.

16.Perempuan rata-rata 153 saat berada di toilet, lelaki 113 saat.

17.Satu berbanding empat, perempuan dibanding lelaki yang berbicara gagap.

18.Penelitian di Amerika, perempuan menggunakan waktu hampir 2 kali lebih banyak untuk berbelanja dibanding lelaki.

19.Perempuan secara umum yang lebih menentukan corak dan gaya pakaian yang dipakai.

20.Penelitian di England, kanak-kanak lelaki lebih mudah ditipu/diperdaya dibanding kanak-kanak perempuan. Kalau di Malaysia   ....   ENTAHLAH..


source :
http://hotreload2u.blogspot.com/2011/11/20-fakta-menarik-antara-lelaki-dan.html




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