Self Confidence ...tips

Your Thoughts lead to Words. 
Your Words lead to Actions. 
Your Actions build Your Character. 
Your Character determines Your Destiny.





Self-confidence...... 
is an important key to success in any walk of life. 


People with self-confidence are noticed more. 
They achieve their goals relatively easily. 
In contrast, people who lack self-confidence often end up being losers. 
You too need to build your self-confidence if you want to do well in life. 


Here are ten tips that can help you build that elusive self-confidence:


1. Self-confidence is found in people who have healthy self-esteem. They know their personal worth and act accordingly. A good way to improve your personal worth is to make a list of your accomplishments every day. You will be surprised to know how many positive acts you perform every day in life, but which you don't notice. Once you start looking at this list, your self-confidence will boom.


2. Be clear about your goals. If need be, break your goals into smaller, more manageable tasks. Pat yourself every time you achieve a minor goal. It will boost your self-confidence, and help you achieve bigger goals.


3. Find a mentor who can help you reach your goal. Most people, who have done well in life, have a mentor who has traveled the same road on which they are traveling today. Meet your mentor regularly, and seek his advice and support as a routine. You will find that you are learning something valuable every day


4. Socialize with people who are positive and supportive, who like and respect you. Give them the same support and respect that they give you. Avoid people who are negative and critical of you. Such people erode your self-confidence. They make you look at your negative self, and not your positive self. After some time, you get enveloped in their cynical and negative world-view. Nothing can be more damaging than that. Dump such friends as soon as you can.


5. Pay attention to how you look. Take pleasure in wearing good clothes and being well groomed. It makes you feel good. People too look at you differently. Remember that every human being wants to be found in the company of smart, intelligent, successful people. 


You can soon be a centre of attraction if you radiate a positive, smart look. 
It can very easily make the difference between success and failure.


Try to practice these tips as faithfully as you can, and see the difference in your life.







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